The
Fountain of Youth?
I
have interviewed more than 90 people over the age of 100 for my book,
5,000
Years of Wisdom,
and one thing I have noticed is that every
single one
of these people have an incredibly positive mental attitude. Some
will tell you that it is the secret to a long life, but all of them
agree that happiness and a positive attitude are simply a choice. We
either choose to be happy....or unhappy. These people have suffered
every hardship you can imagine, poverty, cancer, divorce, the death
of spouses and children. But yet, when you ask them about their
lives, they're happy. In spite of all the hardships, the struggles,
the tragedies.....they're happy. Who knows? After 100 years of
living, maybe they're onto something.
Read,
enjoy, share....and be happy.
Why
do you have such a good attitude?
“Why
not have a good attitude? It's just as easy to have a good attitude
as a bad attitude.
Attitude
is a choice, it's a state of mind. You just have to decide to be
happy. You have to decide to have a good attitude.”
Gloria Jan Mitchell, 104
“Be happy.....and laugh. To laugh
and be happy makes your life longer. That's the most important thing
in life. It's not the money or the stuff. It's just that I can live
and be happy and try to make somebody else happy out there. I want
them to feel good about themselves. I'm looking to make other people
happy like me. I
tell people I am the luckiest man alive....and I believe that! I am
the luckiest man alive. I wouldn't trade my life for no one. I love
my life just like it is. I don't need money; I have everything I
need. I just want to be happy.”
Delmar
Hopkins, 105
“I
try to stay positive. There's people that you're afraid to ask how
they are because they're always grumblin' about something. I don't
want to be like that. I think your attitude is everything.”
Dorothy
Wilson, 100
“I love my life, from
the day I was born to the day I'm going to die. I don't know when
that's going to be....but not any time soon! I
just love life and I enjoy it. Life is what you make it, I think.
You have to have a good attitude and keep your spirits up and think
good thoughts. You can find something good in everything that
happens to you, or you can find something bad. It's your choice.”
Estelle
Thompson, 102
“I've
had a good life. It's just as sweet as it can be. I never let nothing
worry me. If you let things worry you, you'll never get no where.
When worry comes on you again and again, that the devil workin' on
you....tryin' to get you. You've got to watch the devil. You've got
to have a happy life.”
Richard
Overton, 109
“You
have to find happiness in life, and without the Lord I don't think
you can really find happiness. That's where you'll find your peace. I
really believe that. It's simple to me now. For 42 years I didn't
have peace, now I do. That's Him, only Him.”
Ethel
Brockelbank, 102
“I
accept life as it comes. I realize that I can't always be happy, but
I try to make the best of it. I've always taken the view that things
could always be worse than what I'm in, but I don't worry about it. I
take care of what I can, and what I can't take care of, to hell with
it. (laughs) My philosophy is pretty simple. Take life as it comes,
and enjoy it for what it is. I
think what's kept me going is my attitude about life.....otherwise
I'm sure I'd be dead by now. Philosophically,
I take a positive look on life. You know, I've had some very happy
moments and some very, very sad moments but they're part of life. I
accept what comes and do the best I can with it. I'm very content
with what's happened to me and what's coming to me. I'm not worried
what's going to happen to me tomorrow. Today is today, period. What
happened yesterday, happened. Some was good, some not so good, but
that's that. It happened and I can't change it. I'm fortunate to
still be here, but if I drop dead tomorrow, I'll be smiling five
minutes before (laughing)! Life has been good, and it continues to
be good.... right down to the last minute.”
Frank
Hurst, 100
“Life
itself is a gift, okay? And you should treat it as such. It's your
responsibility to appreciate and to take that gift and do the best
you can with it. That would include all the facets of living....you
could write a book almost, on all the requirements. I just think you
accept the work and the fun and the responsibilities of life and
enjoy it.”
Lt. Col Richard Cole, 100
“Life
is wonderful. It's beautiful. It's just beautiful. I’m having
the time of my life. And I think happiness and a good attitude helps.
I
try to be happy all the time. It's all in the way you think about
life. Unhappy people make themselves unhappy. It’s just as easy to
be happy instead. You know, you can't worry about everything because
you're going to have ups and downs all through life. That’s just
the way life is. Take it from me, I'll be 107, and I know.”
Ida
Mae Wilson, 106
“Don't
Worry, Be Happy”
Bobby
McFerrin
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